Heartbreak can leave us with countless questions, one of the most common being, “Do they regret losing me?” Whether it’s a former partner, a close friend, or someone who once played a significant role in your life, this lingering question often keeps us tied to the past. A tarot reading can help shed light on their energy, emotions, and thoughts while providing you with clarity and closure.
In this blog, we’ll explore a tarot spread specifically designed to answer this question. By examining their feelings, intentions, and potential regrets, you can gain the insight needed to move forward with confidence.
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For an accurate career tarot reading, you need to calm your mind. Please close your eyes and take two deep breaths and now choose the card number which instinctively draws your attention.
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This is a general reading and may not resonate with every individual. If you seek a more personalized experience tailored to your unique situation, consider booking a private session with a professional tarot reader.
Spread 1: Exploring Their Regrets
Do they regret losing me? – The Five of Cups
The Five of Cups is a card of sorrow, regret, and mourning what has been lost. This card strongly suggests that they do regret losing you. They are likely reflecting on the relationship and feeling a deep sense of sadness over what they let slip away. However, they may also be focusing too much on what went wrong instead of appreciating what they still have in their life.
Message for You: While they may regret losing you, this card indicates that their regret is rooted in sadness and self-pity rather than taking action to make amends. Use this insight to decide whether to seek closure or move on.
Career Advancement Opportunity – Three of Wands (Reversed)
Rearrange your priorities. You may feel weighed down. Not knowing where to start would be overwhelming. At your current job, this might lead you to overlook mistakes. This may make you impatient; quit early if need be. Stay focused; resist the urge to daydream. Do you want to make this work? Does your current effort advance your goals? Let yourself settle in and trust your abilities. Believe in yourself and know you can succeed.
What are their feelings toward me now? – The Moon
The Moon represents confusion, hidden emotions, and uncertainty. This card indicates that their feelings toward you are complicated and not entirely clear to themselves. They may feel drawn to you but are struggling with emotional confusion or unresolved issues.
Message for You: Their feelings are likely a mix of regret and fear, making it difficult for them to take responsibility or express their emotions clearly.
Spread 2: Their Intentions and Energy
Do they regret losing me? – The Ten of Swords
The Ten of Swords signifies an ending, often accompanied by pain and betrayal. This card suggests they do regret the loss, but their regret is tied to feelings of finality and defeat. They may believe that the relationship cannot be salvaged, even if they wish things had ended differently.
Message for You: Their regret is real, but it may not lead to reconciliation. This card encourages you to focus on healing and letting go of the pain caused by the ending.
What are their feelings toward me now? – The King of Cups
The King of Cups represents emotional maturity, compassion, and deep feelings. This card indicates that they still care for you and may feel a sense of love or admiration. However, their emotions are likely kept under control, making it hard for them to express their true feelings openly.
Message for You: They may have a mature perspective on the relationship but are likely prioritizing emotional stability over taking action to reconnect.
What action, if any, will they take? – The Eight of Cups
The Eight of Cups symbolizes walking away in search of something more fulfilling. This card suggests they may choose to distance themselves emotionally, even if they regret losing you. This action may stem from a belief that moving on is the best choice for both of you.
Message for You: This card encourages you to focus on your own journey of self-discovery and fulfillment, rather than waiting for their return.
Spread 3: Clarity and Closure
Do they regret losing me? – The Three of Swords
The Three of Swords represents heartbreak, sorrow, and emotional pain. This card strongly suggests that they do regret losing you and are likely feeling the emotional impact of the separation. Their regret may be tied to a sense of guilt or sadness over the pain they caused you.
Message for You: While their regret is genuine, this card also highlights the need for both of you to heal from the heartbreak and move forward with compassion.
What are their feelings toward me now? – The Page of Pentacles
The Page of Pentacles signifies curiosity, learning, and a desire for growth. This card suggests that their feelings toward you are focused on reflection and understanding. They may be trying to learn from the past and grow as a person, even if they are not ready to reach out.
Message for You: Their feelings are rooted in a desire to grow, but this doesn’t necessarily mean they will take action to rekindle the relationship.
What action, if any, will they take? – The Chariot
The Chariot represents determination, focus, and forward momentum. This card indicates that they may take action to move forward—whether toward reconciliation or their personal goals. If they reach out, it will be with a clear purpose and strong intention.
Message for You: Be prepared to assess their intentions carefully if they do take action. The Chariot encourages you to stay in control of your own path, regardless of their choices.
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Conclusion
Tarot can provide valuable insights into the emotions and intentions of someone who has left your life. While these spreads explore whether they regret losing you, it’s important to remember that the focus should ultimately be on your own healing and growth. Regret, no matter how deeply felt, doesn’t always lead to action or reconciliation.
Use the insights from your reading to reflect on what you need for closure and self-growth. Whether you choose to seek answers through tarot or personal reflection, remember that your journey forward is your own. Embrace the opportunity to heal, grow, and create a future that aligns with your happiness and purpose.
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Yes, tarot can provide insight into their emotions and intentions. Cards like The Five of Cups or The Three of Swords often indicate regret and sadness over the loss, while others like The Hanged Man can show hesitation or inaction.
If the cards suggest they don’t regret losing you, it’s an opportunity to focus on your own healing and growth. Remember, tarot is a tool for clarity and empowerment, not just answers.
Tarot can explore potential actions and energies surrounding the relationship, but it doesn’t guarantee specific outcomes. Free will and choices always play a role.
This decision should come from your own intuition and readiness. Tarot can offer guidance, but it’s ultimately up to you to assess whether reaching out aligns with your emotional well-being.
You can perform this spread yourself if you’re comfortable with tarot, but a professional reader can provide deeper insights and an unbiased perspective, especially for emotionally charged questions.
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Lavanya Arora
Tarot Lavanya is among the best tarot readers in India, with a 5-star rating from over 3000 clients. She has helped clients navigate through difficult relationships, challenging jobs, and life-altering events.