I get asked this more than anything else. More than career questions, more than “will I get married,” more than money.
People want to know: what is he feeling about me? Not what he is saying. What he feels.
And honestly, I get it.
We are all bad at reading other people. We overanalyze a one-word reply. We convince ourselves someone is losing interest because they did not text back for four hours.
I have sat with women who were sure their partner was pulling away — and then the cards showed someone who was deeply in love but just… scared.
I have also seen the opposite, where everything seemed fine on the surface and the cards said otherwise.
Both happen more often than you would think.
So here is what I have put together for you: a pick-a-card tarot spread about his feelings. Four cards, four readings. Pick one and see what comes up.
What Are Their Feelings For Me?
Free Relationship Tarot Reading
Uncover the truth hidden in their heart. This 5-card spread reveals what they truly feel, how they see you, what they desire, what holds them back, and where this connection is heading.
Focus on This Person
Close your eyes, picture them clearly, and hold the connection in your heart
Choose 5 Cards
Let your intuition guide you — tap the cards that call to you
Reading the energy between you…
Their Feelings Revealed
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How to use this reading
Choose one of the four cards below. Go with your gut.
Before you pick:
- Close your eyes. Two slow breaths. Let your mind settle.
- Pick the number that grabs you first. If you read all four and then choose, the reading loses its accuracy. Trust your first instinct.
- This is a general reading. It will resonate broadly, not specifically. For a reading that is actually about your situation, scroll to the bottom for how to book one with me.
Note – This is a general reading and might not be personalized to your situation. For a personalized reading, click here
The spread: what does he feel about you?
Choice 1 - Queen of Pentacles
His feelings are strong, and they are pointed toward the future.
When he looks at you, he does not just see someone he is attracted to. He sees someone who has goals, who is building something for herself, and that pulls him in.
He is the type who wants a partner, not a project. And you register as a partner to him.
He thinks about what life could look like with the two of you together. Not in an abstract way — in a “we could actually do this” way.
He wants more time with you. Real time, where you talk about what matters.
Short version: he is not messing around. His feelings are serious.
Choice 2: Nine of Wands
Respect. That is the core of what he feels.
If you have been through rough patches in life and he has seen even a glimpse of that, it left an impression.
He looks at you and thinks: she kept going. He might not say it, but there is a part of him that genuinely looks up to you.
He is also protective in a quiet way.
Not possessive, just… he wants to know you are okay. He believes you are smart and capable, and he thinks with a bit of backing, you could pull off pretty much anything.
These are not butterflies-in-the-stomach feelings. They are slower and steadier than that. He sees you clearly and likes what he sees.
In my experience reading for clients, that kind of grounded feeling tends to last.
Choice 3 – Judgement (Reversed)
He feels like something between you two needs to shift.
Not in a bad way, necessarily. More like he senses you are both carrying stuff from the past — old hurts, leftover resentment, things you never said out loud — and he wants to move past it.
He is ready. The question in his mind is whether you are.
If you are together, he is hoping you will both agree to drop the baggage and start a new chapter. If you are single and this is someone you are interested in, he can feel that you are holding back.
There is a wall, and he knows it is there.
He is not impatient about it. But he is paying attention. And he is waiting.
Choice 4 – Hierophant (Reversed)
He has picked up on the fact that you are not a casual person when it comes to relationships. You want something real. He can tell.
What is interesting about this card is that it often comes up when someone is hiding how much they care.
You might be playing it lighter than you feel — acting unbothered, keeping things surface level — and he senses the disconnect. He does not fully buy the act.
If you are single: you can drop the guard with this one. He would actually respond better to directness than to games.
If you are together: he feels stable and grounded with you. He is thinking about what comes next, and he is not nervous about it.
How long does this tarot reading stay valid?
If you found this page because something in you was looking for an answer, the reading is relevant now.
Tarot works with the energy you bring to it at the moment you engage.
So if you picked your card honestly, without peeking at the others first, you are good.
That said, feelings are not static.
Come back in a few weeks and you might pull a completely different card. That does not mean the first reading was wrong. It means things moved.
Can I get a reading specific to my situation?
This spread gives you a general sense of his feelings, but it cannot account for your specific relationship, his name, your history, or the exact question that has been on your mind.
For that, I do one-on-one readings:
- Email: tarotwithlavanya@gmail.com
- WhatsApp: Message Here
Relationship questions make up the bulk of my work. I have done over 3,000 readings at this point, and what does he feel about me is the single most common question I hear.
A personalized reading goes much deeper than what a general spread can offer
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Lavanya Arora
Lavanya is the founder of Tarot With Lavanya and an award-winning tarot reader and numerologist. With over 8 years of experience and a 5-star Google rating, she has delivered honest, actionable clarity to 11,000+ clients across 50 countries navigating career, relationship, and family crossroads.
